Over at N2Growth, Bloggers Hub member Mike Myatt is encouraging leaders to exercise EC--emotional control: "Emotional outbursts, rants, and rages will rarely do anything but cause you to make poor decisions and to lose credibility." So what to do with those pesky emotions that so clearly under-gird human behavior, but can just as easily destroy your ability to lead as help it? Clearly, you can't escape them entirely--nobody wants to follow a passionless leader. But, nobody likes a hothead either. Chess legend Gary Kaspaorov wrestled with the issue and came up with this:
So let's assume you have your emotions in check, and you've integrated them into your decision-making, but you make a tactical decision to engage them to light a fire under your team. You're still in control of your emotions--you just think that a strategic rant makes sense. Good or bad? Take it from another Bloggers Hub member, Terry Starbucker, who pondered To Yell or Not to Yell, That Is The Question (And 5 Things To Think About Before You Answer It). Starbucker thinks "the rant" can be a leadership tool, if used properly and only after you take into account the following five factors:
- Like any other messaging delivery system, what we really need to look at is the content of that message.
- Then there is the timing of that message. [Pick] a time when everyone [is] already in a heightened state of awareness.
- Frequency: If you are prone to yell at the slightest provocation, or need to jack up the volume every time you feel you need to provide inspiration, it will get old really fast, and people will tune you out.
- Another consideration is the person behind the yell – how “outside the box” is this outburst? I classify rants in several ways – there are the natural “in the moment” sounding ones, very contrived and fake ones, and then there are the “fight or flight“ fear generated ones. Humans are very perceptive creatures, and they can pick up on these nuances very quickly.
- Lastly, you have to “put your money where your mouth is” - that is, if you’re going to yell at people to get them to perform at a higher intensity and focus, then you better do the same yourself.
If it sounds like the strategic rant would be hard to pull off...well, it should be. What Starbucker is suggesting doesn't run counter to the advice of Myatt or Kasparov. Starbucker is suggesting that you be able to do a little method acting now and then to express appropriate emotion. And that is the height of emotional control.
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